HOW TO TOUCH A GIRL YOU’RE MEETING FOR THE FIRST TIME.

For girls… physical touch is a strong way of expressing their love and desire for someone they are interested in. 

If a girl is not comfortable with you, she won’t let you touch her. That’s why for sex to happen, she has to first feel comfortable around you, and comfortable with you touching her lightly, before an intimate touch that could lead to sex. 

Most guys are scared of touching a girl they meet for the first time, or have been seeing for a while. 

The reason for this is because they don’t want to come off as needy and desperate, and even more… they don’t want to offend the girl, cos they feel that they may come off too strong, and the girl will not like them again. 

Totally understandable. That’s a valid excuse. But what you need to realize is that… Girls are always in their feelings, and in as much as you might be witty, entertaining and fun to be with… 

You have to start giving her that vibe of physical bonding early enough. TOUCH HER now. Don’t leave it for later. Touch her now and begin to spark those chemical reactions in her, so that it will train her mind to begin to see you as someone she can get intimate with. 

Sometimes guys become too careful to the point that even when the girl is giving them the green light to touch, they are too scared, and as such… she becomes cold, and uninterested in you because you’re slipping into the Nice Guy zone who is too innocent to escalate things. And she knows just where to send you to… Her friend zone. 

But hold on… I guess your mind is already going far. You’re probably thinking that you need to start having the balls to touch her neck, grab her butt, press her breast, rub her thighs and touch her so intimately. No! 

That will come later, when she has become really comfortable with you. (by the way… the “Bad Boy” Formula is your best bet for seduction and Sexual escalation technique. Get that book and take your game to a whole new level) 

But for you to get to this stage of intimate touching… You have to create the environment at that early stage you’ve just known her, and even the very first day you meet her. 

You need to set her mind to get used to you touching her, and start seeing you as a highly Sexual man that you truly are, but wouldn’t mind feeling comfortable with that. 

Let me show you how. 

So… touching a new girl you just met has to be a deliberate act on your side, but at the same time… it must be done in a subtle, specific and innocent manner such that she doesn’t feel like you’re coming up too strong on her.

Even though she might want you to touch her… you have to do it discreetly. You don’t go and start stroking her thighs or neck or holding her as if you guys are intimate.

She’ll get turned off. So, rather… 

✅ Touch her while you’re talking, not when you both are silent, so it doesn’t create an awkward moment

✅ While talking, gesticulate by moving your hands around as if you’re describing something, and let your hand brush on her skin gently – preferably on her hand. 

The idea is for your skin to rub off on her so innocently that the talk will distract her and make her not to pay so much attention to the touch, but at the same time, she has felt your skin.

Do this for a couple of times as long as the conversation lasts. 

✅ If you’re sitting side by side with her and having the conversation, try to make your hand rub off on hers for a split seconds and take it off almost immediately. She will definitely feel the touch. 

As you can see… the conversation is going on (probably she’s having a good time with you and enjoying the vibe of the convo), but you’re touching her innocently and supposedly “unintentionally” – but you know what you’re doing. 

That sends a message across to her, and makes her to start being comfortable around you. And unless a woman is comfortable around you… you can’t take things further with her.

(Also… if you want to learn how to have a NOT  BORING conversation with women, exactly what to say and how to say it, plus how you can become a smooth talker, even if you’re a shy type or an introvert… there is a Module and Section of the “Bad Boy” Formula that gives you PRACTICAL drilling on that) 

Next… 

✅ Another way of touching her is by giving her a soft handshake. That looks and feels innocent too, and your skin has come in contact with hers. 

From there on in… you can subsequently use the other “Bad Boy” Formula technique on seduction and sexual escalation to give her a barrage of wild thoughts and make her behave dirty and naughty with you. 

These things, as simple as they sound… is the subtle way to deal with this virgina gender. They work like magic. 

That’s how to touch a woman you newly met.

Learn and Apply. Go on and practice this.