Reality is a relentless slog full of electrical bills and ever-increasing grocery costs. Is it any wonder that fantasy, that glorious land of pleasure and dopamine, is so much more appealing than the daily slog of trash cans and rent? What does one do when they want to cast off the shackles of the daily routine and be reborn as an unstoppable TS cougar bimbo slut?
Today’s column comes courtesy of a reader who is a married man who is dreaming of being transformed into a multi-holed slut bag. Is such a thing possible? Does a married man trapped in the mundane realities of the day-to-day have a chance of being the eager femme bag of holes they dream of? The Dirty Talk advice column has the answers! (however they might not be what you want to hear)
“As a married man in a sexless relationship, I can’t stop thinking about my ultimate fantasy…which is to be permanently feminized by an older alpha sugar daddy and made over into a totally passable hot cougar. I would love a ltr with a Dominant who would make me over into a 24/7 hot cougar to be enjoyed by all. Before I got married I was a trans woman and I LOVED it. Where are the twisted predators with the skills to make over married males into insatiable bimbos for brainless usage?? It’s all I can think about and I do it constantly. How do I make this fantasy come true?? I NEED this in my life and would do anything to make it happen!!”—Cougar Bimbo
TS Feminization Fantasies
There are two things happening here simultaneously, Cougar Bimbo. I am going to answer your question before tackling the much bigger thing lurking behind your ever-present feminization fantasies. Are there older alpha sugar daddy Doms who get off on remaking married men into totally passable hot cougars? The odds are higher than zero with over 8 billion of us on the planet. One of my friends managed to find a wealthy executive that bankrolled their multiple plastic surgeries for the express purpose of being transformed into an insatiable bimbo for brainless usage, so such things can happen.
Because I have seen the work of a sugar daddy with a transformation fetish with my own eyes, I can say with confidence at least one such person exists. Where there is one, there are probably more. The difference between my friend and you CS, is that she was not an older married man in a sexless relationship fantasizing about being transformed. She had already fully transitioned years earlier and was in the adult entertainment industry making films. She was also quite actively looking for a sugar daddy with a transformation fetish. And she eventually found one.
Sugar Daddy Dreams
Your letter to me makes it very clear just how much you crave being similarly transformed. What isn’t clear to me is how actively you are attempting to find your sugar daddy. Are you advertising and persistently seeking all possible opportunities? Or are you hoping one will just pop up in your life and wave the transforming wand of their thick wallet at you, turning you from a frog into a beautiful princess?
Might there be an older alpha dom out there that would take on transforming you into a sexual object for everyone’s use? Sure. There might be. Might you be able to find him if you look really really hard? Maybe. The fact that you are not already a transitioned TS porn star who wanted to be made into an even sluttier version of themselves will make it harder for you to find the sugar daddy of your dreams. Not impossible, but harder. Married men not making adult films won’t find it as easy to catch the eye of wealthy doms with transformation fetishes, statistically speaking.
Bimbo Escapism
This is the answer to the question you asked, and now I want to address the much bigger issue laying underneath your question. This is where I might lose you, but your constant fantasies about this radical transformation into a permanently feminized TS cougar bimbo aren’t so much about your desire to be a permanently feminized TS cougar bimbo as it is escapism. Your brain has convinced you that if only you could find the right wizard to cast their spell, your life will be magically transformed.
You are an older male in a sexless relationship dreaming of being made over into a brainless bimbobot. No more stifling sexless marriage, you will be a well-used piece of communal fuck flesh! Praise the slut gods and pass the lube! Gone will be the unwanted and untouched man, in his place will be a bimbo butterfly full of dopamine and desire. Your whole life will somehow be so much better if you can just find a wealthy wizard to change your life. Of this you are certain.
Where would your spouse fit into your new life if you manage to get transformed into a permanently feminized TS cougar bimbo? Are they holding back your hair for you while you master your deep-throating skills on strangers? Or are they part of the cocoon that will be cast aside in the process of your transformation and left behind?
Wherever You Go There You Are
Becoming an entirely different person on the outside doesn’t mean that the same issues won’t still be there on the inside, lurking under your juicy new tits. My advice to you is to talk to your spouse. Your letter to me didn’t mention if your spouse knows of your fantasy or if you have told them how you feel about being in a sexless marriage. When we don’t do the (often hard and scary) work of communicating, we find ourselves trapped resentfully in our heads, wishing things were different.
I am not saying that having an honest conversation with your spouse is going to be easy. The odds are that it seems so overwhelming that writing to me was the easier path. I do feel for you, and I can sense a stressed person who wants to get a whole new life because they don’t much like the one they currently have. Talking to your partner is the first and most important step to changing that fact.
Once you have done that, you will be in a better position to make some changes. I do deeply hope you find some dopamine and get a bit more comfortable in your skin. If being made over is what you truly crave, taking on the transformation yourself as opposed to hoping someone else will fund it for you will increase your chances of it happening. Best of luck Cougar Bimbo!
Keep it Kinky My Friends,
RDG
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