Body is not firewood. It us unhealthy for a man to live a million miles away from his wife without sex for weeks talk less of months and years on end -it is insane!
It is emotionally killing for a woman to be a million miles away from her husband for months and years on end and you call that what? Marriage?
To get things fixed, some couples do online sex. Send online sex videos, masturbate and send sexy pictures, I laugh in Yoruba language!
Look baby, getting a man turned on won’t kill that sex drive! It is practically setting him on fire with no water to douse! He needs your own water and if you aren’t there to douse, some hot babe will. Sorry, if that truth is too harsh to handle!
Mr, your wifey needs to talk and have sex. If you are not there to talk and an interesting male friend shows up, let’s avoid stories that touch!
Someone may say, “why is this woman promoting adultery? What happens to self control?” If you could control yourself you wouldn’t get married. You will rather stay single and leave sex alone.
I am not promoting adultery. I am teaching you how to avoid it.
Don’t tempt the devil to tempt you. Stay close to your spouse.
If your job must take you out of the country, both of you should go together. If it is transfer. Be transferred together.
A working marriage is between two couples who are always together.
You are still courting, one is in Canada, the other is in Ibadan and you are doing online marriage and sex. It’s okay.
If they (your husband/wife) are already out of the country or living in different states of same country, find a way to be together and have sex regularly not on video but real life.
Phone talk, online chats and flirting is unlike real talk, touching, affection and sex.
That is the truth.
Real intimacy is built, can’t be bought with money.
The way people have affairs all around is mad and sickening, disgusting and heart aching!
Your marriage is at stake!
Your children are at stake!
Your happiness is at stake!
It is well with you.
Stay blessed.
© Seun Oladele